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Fourth and Final important step of Confidence: To create an instant impression

We have to learned to be assertive, we've become an effective communicator and also understood, how to make balance in our earlier 3 steps. Now, here we'll be learning 8 techniques to create that instant impression, it just doesn't matter with whom you are; whether it's your office, home or any other place. After leaning these techniques, you can gain the knowledge to create that instant impression. you’ll discover some non-verbal forms of communication that help to inject emotion and energy into the way you communicate. I’ll share some techniques you can use every day. They won’t only help you to come across assertively but they’ll help you to feel more confident too. Let's begin leaning it one-by-one: Eye not only sees, speak also a lot: How many times you've felt that your colleagues are talking to you without looking at you? There are two reasons behind lack of constant eye contact: Shyness Distraction It doesn't matter though but in both...

Step three of confidence: Maintaining balance

Earlier, we've learned to be an effective communicator by changing style of handling critical situations. In this blog, we shall understand in depth that how to maintain the balance in thoughts. Let's take 'brain' for example to understand, we all know that a human brain has two parts: Right brain and left brain. Right brain thinks creatively while your left brain thinks from a critical side of life. Often, we tend to commit such mistake; where-in we jumbled up the thoughts in our mind and by doing this, either we couldn't able to come to a concrete decision or we messed things up & both the situations won't take you anywhere. Whether it's your personal of professional life, communication clashes will always be there. It's not a situation, where-in the other person is right and you're wrong or vice-versa, its just the fact that both are not understanding to settle this clash through effective communication & sometimes, it reached to a s...

Second Step of Confidence: Using Effective communication

Till this point, i hope you are pretty clear about how to overcome self-doubt and convert it into an opportunity to grab attention. But, there are some scenarios where-in there are some aggressive colleagues, which will always makes your job more tougher & even very difficult to grab that chance to present. Let's understand this by a practical scenario which i've faced during my job: While in the beginning of my career after MBA from where i acquired several skill-set including effective presentation, efficient communication, team building skills & many more because in today's corporate world, you can't trust anybody easily, one needs time and persistence. So, ultimately it becomes extremely tough to get the work done or even putting your point forward to grab attention. In my case, it was my immediate senior who was having a pleasant personality but if you are working under him, believe me, he won't let you speak at any instant. He, by his nature; ver...

First important step of Confidence: Being Assertive

In the earlier blog, we've understood, What is Confidence? but here we'll be learning it step-by-step that how and where to use it in the corporate world to fight for your right. Imagine you've studied extremely hard and because of this, you got good marks too. You've always dreamt of becoming an Architect, so after finishing up your Architecture from one of the top-notch university, you are going to start your career by getting a job for getting the practical exposure but on the very first day of your job & it happens, that you tend to feel a bit shaky and nervous. So, now the questions arises that, Are you a kind of person who hold yourself from taking initiatives and grabbing opportunities? It's quite usual, that it's the first time you are meeting all new Individuals but if you think it in terms of being an opportunist, this is the time where you can create that solid impression. let's understand in detail: there are some common mistakes ...

How to be Confident - 6 Actions to be taken

21st century, word "Confident" seems small; though when it matter most, it doesn't actually work that way out. A confident person never hesitates in sharing thoughts, ideas or opinions regardless of various platforms. "A confident person has all the attributes of becoming a good leader and a leader always takes decisions from heart", so one can say that whichever decision, we take from our heart and if we implemented in the practical world, the chances of getting success increases tremendously but only a few of us are actually showing confidence at our will that is the reason in this world, there are a very few leader and many followers. What do you want to be in your life? A leader or a follower, decide now because once time is gone, it will never comes back but a confidence person always keeping himself ahead of time. There are many more important characteristics of an amazingly confident person, let's discuss it one by one: Dress for the moment ...

Stress Management: Using Self-help techniques to deal with Stress

It is the most common problem in Modern Lives, "Dealing with Stress". Its' been found out while doing interactions with Teenagers; that almost 70-75% of them are suffering from stress like loneliness, Following major deadlines, Assignments, Workloads etc. Mostly, teenagers seems overburdened & falling short of getting a good companion etc. So, we shall be learning, what are the different ways through which we can encounter Stress or in short, proven tips and tricks to manage or channelize stress effectively. But, let's first start by understanding, what 'Stress Management' actually is: Stress management is all about taking charge: of your lifestyle, thoughts, emotions, and the way you deal with problems. No matter how stressful your life seems, there are steps you can take to relieve the pressure and regain control. To be more highly productive, more happy and most importantly, full of life in each and every second. The ultimate goal of effec...

In-depth understanding; Real Intellignce

We all have read many theories since our childhood and while evaluating our education system, we tend to find that entire syllabus, teaching methodology etc; all are being predefined. Every student has to go through that only, just imagine if it keeps going on for your lifetime which means that we all are acting as robots. But, are we robots? so, how to realize, What is Real Intellect? Lets' get in-depth to understand this. Is Intellect learning? Is Intellect means to find out the solutions? Is Intellect; making proper career path? Is Intellect; thinking? Is Intellect; doing without thinking? Is Intellect; the belief? Is intellect means acting as per the information? Is intellect means learning from mistakes? All of the questions mentioned above are the common mistakes, we as a human generally making on day-to-day basis. So, first we have to make sure we must start putting up a question mark on all our questions whether it'd be related to your career, be...

Attitude - 3 Ultimate Winning Strategies

Do you really want to become a superhuman, Do you really want to earn handsome money and living & Do you want to balance both i.e. Mental & Physical life, perfectly? Then, i suggest; you must read ahead!! The are 3 ways which we (common man) uses and your life will prosper or not depends; which way you will choose?   Bob down by inculcating fear : This is the most dangerous way, you will never be able to overcome your thoughts even it would be very tough to achieve the tiniest tasks. Overall, you will be completely ruined yourself and your career. It's totally your choice, whether you want to run this way but majority of people are running this way.   Greed/Avarice : Too much money in too short span of time, get rich quick. There's a say: "Rome wasn't built in a day", Most of us wants to have everything in our life without paying correct price for that. For e.g. In share market, we just invest some money and expected to grow it ex...

Do God exist or not?

My dear friends, whether you do believe it or not; The great source of inspiration is  "Deep within you"  only. Let's have an in-depth understanding on this topic by asking certain questions to ourselves: What is our source of inspiration? How inspiration and motivation are different? Managing time or Managing anxiety? etc.. The real answers to all above and other questions of these sorts lies "Deep within you" and you can generate internal strength through understanding ourselves by doing "Meditation", "Dhyan". Let us understand it in a broad manner through a perfect real life example : It's an incident which many of you might not be aware about but when i started going deep inside layer by layer; i've realized that whatever we want to achieve in our life; whatever we aspire for or whatever we've always dreamt of in our lives, all can be converted into reality if we truly believes in it. I am quite fond of readin...

How & Why: Meditation?

How and why to meditate? Meditation not only improve your life infact it keeps you concentrated, healthy and fit for all sorts of tasks you performed in day to day modern busy lives. Here are 5 simple ways to start meditation on a beginner level and then slowly, steadily move to the advanced level: First of all, its very important to sit at a calm and serene place and also important to wear the comfortable clothes. Also, make sure that you do some stretches before sitting in the proper posture, so that you can keep your body relax even if you go deep and long into the meditation. Secondly, its very important to focus on breath (inhale and exhale) as this plays a substantial role in getting your concentration which shows in your daily work as you won't forgotten the important tasks and you could easily keep the track of the tasks being done in the order which it needs to be. Don't let thoughts move around in different directions as it will not give you the deep se...

Way to 'Financial Freedom': read top 5 books

If you are of 30 years of age and wants to become a successful businessman, then we've got some perfect books for you which will surely help you. Whomsoever wants to become self-dependent, successful and a business magnet, one must read 1.  The wealth of Nations: Adam smith wasn't in the favor of trading infact he always wanted regulations to be in place so that the monopoly can be controlled. 2.  Extraordinary Popular Decision and the Madness of Crowds: Charles Mackay has mentioned that the activities are being affected by emotions and wrong company which we are into. Charles explained about the stock of South Sea company and called it a 'bubble'. The terminologies which is being used in this book still being used today. 3. How to win friends and influence people: Dale Carnegie clearly explains the characteristics of a businessman. The tricks and traits of business relationship can easily be understand in a systematic step-by-step manner. Case study...